孤独感在澳大利亚日益普遍,约六分之一的15岁以上人口表示经常感到非常孤独[1]。为应对这一现象,付费社交俱乐部应运而生,成为寻求结构化社交机会的新选择。TimeLeft等平台通过会员制模式为参与者策划社交体验,会费范围从每月约5澳元到每年99澳元不等[1],其中TimeLeft等服务的单次体验费用约为每月20美元(不含食饮)[1]。
然而,这一趋势引发了关于友谊本质的深层思考。2025年的研究发现,个人的社交互动次数与孤独感之间并无显著关联,反而情感亲密度等质量因素显得更为重要[1]。虽然付费社交俱乐部承诺提供低风险的社交环境,但将人类连接货币化也带来了伦理问题。真正的友谊需要时间、信任和相互承诺,这些难以通过付费参与获得[1]。专家建议,通过参加重复性活动和志愿服务等方式建立有意义的友谊,可能比付费俱乐部更为可行[1]。
Paid social clubs have emerged as a growing trend in Australia, offering structured social opportunities to people seeking connection in an increasingly isolated world. [1] About one in six Australians aged 15 and above report frequently feeling very lonely, [1] a statistic that has fueled demand for these membership-based platforms. Services like TimeLeft and Chirpy Plus charge members monthly fees ranging from approximately 5 Australian dollars to 99 Australian dollars annually, [1] with platforms such as TimeLeft offering curated social experiences for around 20 US dollars per month, excluding food and beverages. [1]
While these paid social clubs promise low-risk social engagement, they raise significant ethical questions about the commercialization of human connection. Research published in 2025 found that the quantity of social interactions individuals have is not significantly correlated with feelings of loneliness; instead, quality factors such as emotional intimacy play a more important role. [1] Meaningful friendships require time, trust, and mutual commitment rather than monetary participation. [1] Building genuine connections through repeated events and volunteer work remains the more sustainable path to addressing social isolation. [1]