心理性治疗师Safari Lee在悉尼晨报撰文，针对如何进行理想的第一次接吻提出了专业建议。Lee建议采用70:30比例而非电影《Hitch》中所述的90:10规则，认为后者可能会让对方感到"即将被吞噬"的不适1。
Lee强调，第一次接吻的关键在于尊重与连接，而非完美执行。他建议首先征得对方明确同意，指出"在一次美妙约会后，两人坐得很近，化学反应逐渐产生，此时询问'我可以亲你吗？'能让对方感到被尊重和渴望"1。在得到同意后，应从轻吻开始，作为一种测试，随后可根据对方反应逐步尝试轻微舌头接触1。此外，保持口腔清洁也被列为重要考虑因素1。Lee认为，接吻的核心目的是享受和建立连接，而非追求某种既定的技术标准1。
Psychosexual therapist Safari Lee has shared expert guidance on executing the perfect first kiss, recommending a 70:30 approach rather than the 90:10 rule popularized in the film Hitch.1 According to Lee, the 90:10 ratio "might make you feel you're about to be devoured," making the alternative proportion more comfortable for both parties.1
Lee emphasizes that consent forms the foundation of any successful first kiss.1 The therapist suggests that after a promising date with building chemistry, one partner should directly ask for permission, saying something like "Is it OK if I kiss you?" — an approach that makes the other person "feel respected and desired."1 Rather than assuming consent through the absence of explicit rejection, Lee stresses the importance of clear communication.
The recommended technique involves beginning with a soft kiss to gauge receptiveness before gradually increasing intensity.1 If the initial contact is well-received, light tongue contact may follow as the kiss deepens.1 Lee frames the core purpose of kissing as mutual enjoyment and emotional connection rather than technical perfection.1
评论
还没有评论，欢迎留下第一条。